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Maureen Kures

After 30 years as a Registered Nurse, Maureen Kures is no stranger to end-of-life issues. As an oncology, hospice, and ICU nurse, she was privileged to provide end-of-life care for many individuals. She has seen first-hand the devastation that can occur when families don’t have potentially difficult discussions with family members – the same discussions that could have helped everyone weather the loss of a loved one in a more productive and positive manner.

No doubt about it – end-of-life conversations are the elephant in your family room and can be challenging for many reasons. And it doesn’t have to be that way! Maureen’s strength lies in her ability to help families calmly approach topics that are difficult to discuss. Her expertise in reducing drama, trauma, and chaos has helped individuals get their affairs in order while getting their families in alignment. Maureen created Radiant Mourning to be an advocate for end-of-life planning and family discussion. She is honored to be a facilitator with Speaking of Dying.

When not advocating for her clients, you can find Maureen walking her much-loved canine companions, devouring wonderful books, and tending her garden.

Contact info: radiantmourning.com

Rees Robinson

Rees is passionate about facilitating processes supporting fully engaged, meaningful living right up until death – a death aligned with each individual’s personal values and beliefs. She enjoys facilitating workshops and working with individuals and is committed to creating an environment where each person can access their gifts and inner wisdom. In addition to facilitating Speaking-of-Dying End-of- Life Planning Workshops, Rees is a Certified Sage-ing Leader with Sage-ing International and a spiritual director. Rees lives in Rhode Island and is available to facilitate in-person workshops throughout the state or virtually through Zoom.

Contact info: 206-718-7813; email reesr@comcast.net

Pamela Steele

Pamela Steele, PhD, is an educational psychologist, certified mediator and conflict resolution trainer who helps people communicate effectively and define practical, realistic ways to meet challenges head on.

Pamela lost both of her parents (congenital heart failure and Alzheimer’s) and her only sibling (prostate cancer) within a two-and-a-half-year period. With no discussions around death and dying and no advance directives, she was left with the responsibility of making all the health care decisions for each of them. Out of this experience and its aftermath, Pamela became committed to learning everything she could about the importance of identifying and defining ways to ensure that end-of-life needs and wishes are recorded and communicated to family members, health care advocates and health care providers.

In 2020, on their 39th anniversary, Pamela lost her husband to a sudden, unexpected cardiac arrest. Through this experience, she has learned about the differences between traumatic loss and loss over time due to the decline in someone’s health. No question, both are painful but they are different.

Through her work as a facilitator, she is honored to help people define their idea of a meaningful death and how they hope to be remembered. Thinking about these issues early, before a crisis, ultimately frees up more energy and zest for everyday life. It’s all about “Living Deeply, Dying Well.”

Pamela conducts workshops and works with individual families in Seattle, WA.

Contact info: email pamela@healthease.guru or visit website at www.healthease.guru

Laurel Riedel (Minnesota Facilitator)

For 30 years, Laurel Riedel guided women and families through the miracle and mystery of birth as a nurse midwife at Hennepin Medical Center. She also cared for both of her parents through the challenges of aging and dementia and was their Health Care Agent. She was at each of their bed sides during their final days.

Being deeply invested in the transitions into and out of life, her passion now is to help people write thoughtful Health Care Directives and more importantly to befriend the conversations about end of life.

Contact info: 612-868-4116; email laurel@speakingofdyingMN.com, or see her website at  speakingofdyingMN.com

Brenda Charles-Edwards.

I’m excited to be a Certified Heartwork Facilitator for End-of-Life Planning. I offer individual and group workshops on Zoom and in-person. The goals of the workshops are to help you deepen your understanding and perspective on death and dying. My goal is to help you determine exactly what your wishes are for your care at the end and to help you designate a person that will carry out your wishes. This is a gift you can give to yourself and your loved ones.

I host the Seniors Matter! Show which is live Fridays at 12:30 pm PT on Rainer Avenue Radio featuring interviews with people that provide services or have valuable information for seniors and the community.  Ways to Watch/Listen (Public Links to Share):

 

https://youtu.be/dK5W-kXUlSc
https://facebook.com/5068754269910310 (RAR)
https://facebook.com/1492232384525990 (Seniors Matter!)
https://twitch.tv/rainieravenueradio
https://twitter.com/rainieraveradio
Rainier Avenue Radio App (free both iPhone & Android users)
https://rainieravenueradio.world

Contact info: 206-683-2636; email brenda@blackorchidenterprises.com

Jenn Kropack

Jenn was born in Seattle, and her career began on a fishing boat in Alaska. She developed an interest in PNW history, economics, and politics that took her back to Evergreen State College to finish her degree in Environmental Studies. Today her passion is in bringing an abundance of wisdom, information, and humor to one of life’s most difficult questions: How do you plan for a peaceful and meaningful death? She brings to this important process, seven years of experience as a Certified Heartwork facilitator for End-of-Life Planning, and more than twenty years as an educator and trainer for the Washington State Department of Health.

Her End-of-Life Planning groups and individual sessions are guided by a deep appreciation for cultural and spiritual diversity and the power of sharing personal stories and truths. Her experience during her father’s end of life instilled in her a calling to share with others the ability to face their own and loved ones’ deaths with intention and tools. Jenn is honored to help others live more joyfully in the present, by planning for a meaningful end to life. She shares everything needed for end-of-life planning – from curated stories and poetry, to current healthcare documents and death with dignity knowledge – in private, personal, and uplifting settings.

She’s available for presentations, workshops, and individual mentoring. She also facilitates an hour-long grief workshop.

Contact info: 206-713-8973; email jwakropack@comcast.net

Jennifer Jones

Jennifer Writes:

“I’m very connected to Heartwork in several ways. The first is that I’ve been working with Trudy James for the past three years as the director and videographer of the film “Speaking of Dying.” While collaborating on this project I became intimately involved in the issues around death and dying, and the difficulties we face if we are unprepared for it.

Through the course of our filmmaking project, I had the opportunity to meet many courageous people who made decisions about their end-of-life care, and were able to tell us why and how they did that. I witnessed first hand the benefit it brought to them in their final weeks and months of life, and how it made their deaths less burdensome for their loved ones. This experience gave me great insight into the powerful benefit of doing this Heartwork.

I also do geriatric care management and work directly with seniors and their families, helping many to manage care for chronic conditions. In doing this work I’ve witnessed both good and bad endings, and I’ve seen personally the great need for these kinds of discussions.

I’m passionate about this topic because I know how important it is to have the ability to die on our own terms, and not be at the mercy of chance, or God, or the medical system. My wish is that this work will inspire and enlighten, and enable us all to have a more gentle and peaceful passing.”

Contact info: 425-220-4091; or jwjwjones@gmail.com

Martha VanDeMark

As a nurse with over a decade of hospice experience, Martha feels privileged to have been present with hundreds of people during the end of their lives. She is passionate about any subject regarding end-of-life experiences and personal stories. Through certification as a Heartwork Facilitator, she has broadened her commitment, interest, and dedication to community-based planning for better endings.

Martha brings a wealth of wisdom, humor, integrity, and balance to end-of-life planning work. She’s been through her own health challenges with help from mindfulness, alternative medicine, meditation, and massage. In her spare time, she can be found with her four grandchildren, enjoying nature, or participating in meaningful community activities.

Contact info: 206-795-7667

Dori Gillam

Dori is a speaker and writer, inspiring older adults to age positively and creatively. She took care of her parents for the last seven years of their lives as they traveled through grave medical conditions and dementia. She became a hospice volunteer and Speaking of Dying group facilitator, bringing unique empathy and expertise to her groups.

Dori has worked for Sound Generations, The Bayview Retirement Community and AARP. She writes for 3rd Act Magazine and is Board Chair for the NW Center for Creative Aging.

Contact info: www.dorigillam.com

Facilitators

Jennifer Kropak

Jan Feb 2014 Remodel & Hawaii 3581 Jennifer Kropack is 100% grateful for being born in Seattle.  She graduated from The Evergreen State College, and has worked at the Dept. of Health, Office of Drinking Water for 23 years.  One of her favorite tasks is to train volunteer Board Members of HOA water systems.  She is a lover of stories, and attends as many story-telling festivals as she can.  She believes each person with their own unique set of life experiences is a walking library of knowledge, heart, and spirit.  Community-based discussion circles are a way to share in a safe and intimate way, to learn from others, and to empower oneself to get end-of-life affairs taken care of so one can live life fully.

Sally McLaughlin

SallySally McLaughlin joined the Heartwork community after over forty years in education, as both a teacher and an administrator in Seattle independent schools. In addition to her training as an advance directive facilitator, Sally is also a volunteer for Providence Hospice, Harborview Hospital’s NODA program, Evergreen Health Hospice, and Compassion & Choices of Washington, where she serves as the Director of Community Education. When she is not involved in efforts to shift the paradigm of how we approach dying and death in the western world, Sally enjoys reading, writing, as well as playing the piano and guitar.

Stephen Thompson

untitledSteven was raised in a small town in the High Sierra, where his parents ran a weekly newspaper.  Joining the Air Force after High School gave him a chance to see some of the world, taught him a trade, and brought him to the Great Pacific Northwest. He moved here in the early 1980s, fell in love with area, the culture, the people, and a special lady. After leaving the service he went to work for a major airplane manufacture, got married, and raised a family.

Steven has a deep spiritual practice, born in a Twelve Step Recovery program, that lead him to the Interfaith Community Church where he met Trudy James and was introduced to the Heartwork project. He finds the end of life group work a meaningful way that he can be of service to the many communities that he is a part of.

Kathleen Coyle and Deb Stamey

KathleenDebPhoto 125Kathleen Coyle is a proud Seattleite. After graduation from college, she worked for Head Start and several non-profit early chidhood education programs. Her first brush with impacting a grassroots organization occurred in the mid 80’s when Kathleen was hired to design and develop a child care program for homeless children. Additional start-ups include a community babysitting co-op, overhauling a school library and assisting in the organization of a baseball team. A companion care provider and NODA (Nobody Dies Alone) volunteer, Kathleen was drawn to Heartwork, a grass roots end-of-life organization, because of its commitment to assist people in completing their advanced health care directives.

Deb Stamey is a lifelong resident of Seattle.  After attending the University of Colorado @ Boulder, she worked in the health & pension brokerage industry and is a licensed agent.  She most recently has devoted her time to raising her family, caring for her mother and grandmother and starting a business providing companion care to homebound residents.  Deb enjoys connecting people, sharing her Master Gardener expertise, entertaining friends & family and has lead 100’s of volunteers in the renovation of her local park.  She passionately believes in the power of bringing people together to explore their personal end-of-life options.

Kathleen & Deb created Heartwork Partners LLC, www.heartworkpartners.com, because they have seen first hand the value in completing an Advance Healthcare Directive.

Ashley Toney

AshleyToneyAshley Toney, a Certified Heartwork Facilitator and experienced buddhist practitioner, facilitates groups in a warm, friendly, ecumenical manner. She has guided children and mentored adults through mindfulness and meditative methods. Her passion is to help people learn about end of life planning so their lives can be lived to the fullest. Ashley is also a Washington State Certified teacher who has taught in public and private schools as well as abroad in Bhutan.

The Film and Beyond

“Speaking of Dying” will be released in mid-April 2015. The film will be a valuable tool for anyone working on advanced care planning or hoping to motivate others to do advanced care planning: churches, parish nurses, senior residences, senior centers, hospitals, hospices, and many other venues.

When packaged as a DVD, “Speaking of Dying” will include a small workbook with suggestions for doing end-of-life planning in a group. The DVD workbook will also include lists of resources and the names of trained Heartwork group facilitators.

Summer 2014 marked the beginning of Heartwork Facilitator Training – a series of experiential groups designed for those who wish to lead their own “A Gift for Yourself and Your Loved Ones” series. Six Heartwork Partners/facilitators are now offering their own group sessions. You can see their bios and their upcoming groups above on this website. Please choose a group located near you, or contact one of the Heartwork Partners on the contact page.

Speaking of Dying
Sponsorship Levels

Legacy Partners (over $5,000)

(A film clip about you and your logo on website, plus logo on the film, the CD cover, the information booklet, and all printed materials)

Archangels ($2,000 – 4,999)

(Logo on film, website, CD cover and information booklet)

Angels ($ 500 – $1,999)

(Name on film, website, and information booklet)

Visionaries ($100 – 999)

(Name on film and website)

Friends (up to $99)

(Name on website)

Trudy James

Trudy James, chaplain and film producer, is a graduate of the University of Kansas and Union Theological Seminary in New York City and a retired interfaith hospital chaplain. She learned hands-on lessons about death, dying and grief in her 50’s while creating a CareTeam program for faith-based volunteers in the early days of the AIDS epidemic in Arkansas. Her ground-breaking CareTeam work with AIDS was honored at the Clinton White House. Nine years later, Trudy created an AIDS Care Team program in Seattle and also served as a chaplain at the Seattle Cancer Care Alliance. After retiring, she created a business called Heartwork in hopes of using what she had learned to help others. She convened Grief and Loss groups in senior housing, facilitated three-day Aging Wisely Together retreats for women at Whidbey Institute, and spent four years pioneering 4-session community-based end-of-life planning workshops. She then spent two years producing the 30-minute film, Speaking of Dying, which reflects the heart of those workshops.

Trudy has trained eleven facilitators who lead end-of-life workshops and screen the film in the Puget Sound area, Palm Springs, CA, Northwest Arkansas, and Minneapolis, MN. She is on the Advisory Board for End of Life, Washington. She offers one-on-one support for individuals, couples and family members dealing with illness, grief and loss, and end of life. Read her recent blogs here: Speaking of Dying Blog

Trudy James ‘walks the talk’, meaning she has worked for many years with persons in the dying process. Trudy is also the most engaging, lively, entertaining, efficient group facilitator that I have had the pleasure of learning from !!!

— Donna Crews Finney

 

“Trudy James may ask you some gently probing questions, but she is less interested in giving you her answers than in helping you give expression to your own answers.”

— Peter G. Beidler, Professor emeritus of Lehigh University, author of the new book, Parkinson Pete on Living and Dying with Parkinson’s Disease

Jennifer Jones

Jennifer Jones is an independent filmmaker/photographer with a special focus on telling stories about aging in America. As a newspaper photojournalist she has won numerous awards during her 20-year career, and served on the Board of the National Press Photographer’s Assn. (NPPA) for 8 years.

She has shot, produced and edited two short documentaries on environmental issues. “Troubled Waters”, a film about the FEMA flood buyout program in Pierce County, and “Hamilton: Town at the Tipping Point”, which details the consequences for those living in the floodway of the Skagit River.

When not doing filmmaking she is working with families as a gerontology specialist, having completed her Certificate in Gerontology at the UW this past year. She assists families who have loved ones with Alzheimer’s Disease and other challenges and is a certified coach for the UW’s Reducing Disability with Alzheimer’s Disease (RDAD) Program.

Catherine Wadley

Catherine Wadley is an award-winning independent editor and producer with over two decades of professional experience in the film, video and multimedia industries. She has worked for video production companies, KIRO-TV (CBS), corporate in-house post-production facilities, and non-profit organizations, editing projects in all genres. Her clients include Microsoft, World Vision, MOHAI, Experience Music Project, Group Health, T-Mobile, as well as numerous independent filmmakers.
Active in the Seattle film community, Catherine has served on the boards of 911 Media Arts Center and Women in Film/Seattle. She has worked as a mentor for Reel Grrls, an award-winning non- profit media arts and leadership training program for girls ages 9 to 19.

Catherine also provides post-production consulting, video editing classes and individual instruction. She owns and operates her a nonlinear editing business, Wadley Digital Media, in Seattle, Washington.

Catherine Grealish

Catherine Grealish is an award-winning LA-based composer for film, games, media and live performance. A multi-instrumentalist, she is a classical and jazz singer, and plays violin, piano, and guitar. Catherine recently won theIndependent Music Vox Pop Award for her soundtrack for the film All Things Hidden.
Catherine’s music has been featured in award-winning films, including the shorts The Last Light and Dressing Up. She has also scored many other independent films including The Last Buck Hunt,Citizen Heroes and All Things Hidden along with the popular Seattle web series Capitol Hill. Find out more at www.catherinegrealish.com.

Scot Charles and Lenny Delorey

Scot Charles and Lenny Delorey have been collaborating as Sound Editors/Designers for several years – reaching back to the days when they first met and worked together at Alpha Cine Film Labs in Seattle in the late 90s.  They have worked as a team on many award winning projects including Features, Short Films, Commercials and Documentaries. They did the sound editing and mixing  for several of Laszlo Pal’s outdoor adventure documentaries broadcast on PBS, including  “Three Flags Over Everest,” narrated by Robert Redford,  and “Sailing the World Alone” which won a National Emmy.  In 2010 they crafted the soundtrack for the feature film about car racing – Jay Roland’s “Clutch.”  The following year they completed the 3 episode PBS Nature series for Pontecorvo Productions “Bears of the Last Frontier,” and in 2014 the widely acclaimed “Snow Monkeys” Nature program which was narrated by Liam Neeson.

Scot currently owns and operates Studio Blue in Seattle, a post production facility specializing in sound design for film and video, and still finds time to mix and master music projects for select artists, as well as teach Audio Production for the University of Washington Outreach Program.
Lenny has his own studio in Boston – recent projects include a remix of the iconic theme from “The World” for PRI atWGBH, Boston.
HIgh speed internet allows them to continue working together on projects from their respective studios on opposite coasts. Their most recent sound design project was the PBS Nature Special “The Last Orangutan Eden” which aired Feb. 25th, 2015 on PBS.